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Some Places We Like
bondage.com
Missfit's G-Pics
Missfit's X-Pics
Missfit caught peeing
E-mail us!
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Our Dom/sub Times
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Spank me...
Missfit, ready for spanking
mmmmm....
Missfit, fresh from a spanking
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Hi, I am TMaster. That is missfit, my sub wife, over on the left.
We enjoy many aspects of life, including
- bdsm,
- flashing,
- nudism,
- 3-somes (with another fem), and
- whatever else makes life an adventure ;)
If you are a lady with bi/sub tendencies or curiosities, we would love to talk to you. If you have knowledge of Gor, that would help. If you are really interested, we would like to find just that someone to join us in our daily life. But whether you are ready for that or not, we would still love to talk. You can email me if you like. Contact points are over on the far left.
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Here is the BDSM Checklist from bdsmcontacts.net. It is quite long to complete on their site, so you can download it here (right-click on the Checklist above and "save as") and complete it in Word (it is a Word document) or print it out and fill it in by hand. Email it, snail mail it, or just keep it to think about, to change as your interests change.
Here is my checklist on this site, as well as a picture of me.
Here's a good site for all-around information:
The Beginners Guide to Dominance and Submission [sic]
P/pet P/peeve...
W/writing L/like T/this...
I/is T/this S/stupid, or W/what?
It's H/hard to R/read, and I don't know what the H/hell it accomplishes... R/respect? F/feeding S/someone's E/ego?
There's G/gotta be a B/better W/way...
9 Levels Of Submission
by Diane Vera and published in The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual, edited by Pat Califia, from Lace/Alyson Press, Boston, 1988
Which are you? or which do you want to be?
- The Outright Non-Submissive Masochist or Kinky Sensualist
- Pseudo-Submissive Non-Slave
- Pseudo-Submissive Play Slave
- True Submissive Non-Slave
- True Submissive Play Slave
- Uncommitted Short-Term But More Than Play Semi-Slave
- Part-Time Consensual-But Real Slave
- Full-Time Live In Consensual Slave
- Consensual Total Slave With No Limits
Safety First
Before any RL meetings, take sensible precautions. These should include the following:
- Arrange to meet someplace public and neutral for the first meeting.
- Never play without a Safe Word and/or Control Words. This is a mutually understood word which means all play stops immediately. No questions asked. Make it one you will not forget. The usual ones are "green", "yellow" and "red". Green means you are still able to bear the intensity of play and can continue; yellow means you are nearing the limits of what you can tolerate; red means you have reached your limit.
- Always be able to communicate your safe word or control words to the Dom/me. Use hand signals if you are gagged.
- Arrange for someone to call you or for you to call someone at a prearranged time on the first meeting or two, at least. Use a key phrase to indicate whether you are alright or you are in trouble and need help.
- Make sure someone knows where you are. You want someone to be able to find you if you are hurt.
- Know the Dom/me well enough so that you know their home address and phone number. Make sure you have the means to leave if necessary.
- Restrict or refrain from alcohol and drugs. These lead to irresponsible actions and innability to determine proper conditions.
- If you hear even the tiniest voice or alarm, LISTEN TO IT!
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