|
BDSM Checklist |
|
Description |
Experience (Yes/No) |
Preference (No,0-5) |
Comments |
|
Abrasion |
No |
No |
|
|
Age play |
No |
2 |
|
|
Anal plug (public, under clothes) |
No |
4 |
for sub |
|
Anal plugs (large) |
No |
3 |
for sub |
|
Anal plugs (small) |
Yes |
4 |
for sub |
|
Anal sex |
Yes |
4 |
for sub |
|
Animal roles |
No |
2 |
|
|
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Aromas |
Yes |
3 |
As in candles, etc. |
|
Asphyxiation |
No |
No |
|
|
Auctioned for charity |
No |
3 |
|
|
Bathroom use control |
No |
No |
|
|
Beastiality |
No |
2 |
|
|
Beating (hard) |
No |
No |
|
|
Beating (soft) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Begging |
No |
1 |
|
|
Being bitten |
No |
No |
|
|
Being serviced (sexual) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Bengay (deep heat) on genitals |
No |
3 |
|
|
Blindfolds |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Bloodplay |
No |
No |
|
|
Bondage (heavy) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Bondage (light) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Bondage (multi-day) |
No |
No |
|
|
Bondage (public, under clothing) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Boot worship |
No |
1 |
|
|
Branding |
No |
No |
|
|
Breast whipping |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Breast/chest bondage |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Breath control |
No |
No |
|
|
Brown showers (scat) |
No |
No |
|
|
Cages |
No |
4 |
|
|
Caning |
No |
4 |
|
|
Catheterization |
No |
1 |
|
|
Cattle prod (electrical toy) |
No |
No |
|
|
Cells/Closets |
No |
4 |
|
|
Chains |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Chamber-pot use |
No |
3 |
|
|
Chastity belts |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Chauffeuring |
No |
1 |
|
|
Choking |
No |
No |
|
|
Chores (domestic service) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Clothespins |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Cock worship |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Collars (worn in private) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Collars (worn in public) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Competitions (with other subs) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Corsets (trained waist reduction) |
No |
No |
|
|
Corsets (wearing casually) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Cuffs (leather) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Cuffs (metal) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Cutting |
No |
No |
|
|
Diapers (soiling) |
No |
No |
|
|
Diapers (wearing) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Diapers (wetting) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Dilation |
No |
? |
Don't know |
|
Dildoes |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Double penetration |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Electricity |
No |
No |
|
|
Enemas (for cleansing) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Enemas (retention/punishment) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Enforced chastity |
No |
4 |
|
|
Erotic dance (for audience) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Examinations (physical) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Exercise (forced/required) |
No |
No |
|
|
Exhibitionism (friends) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Exhibitionism (strangers) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Eye contact restrictions |
No |
3 |
|
|
Face slapping |
No |
No |
|
|
Fantasy abandonment |
No |
3 |
|
|
Fantasy gang-rape |
No |
3 |
|
|
Fantasy rape |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Fear (being scared) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Fisting (anal) |
No |
No |
|
|
Fisting (vaginal) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Flame play |
No |
No |
|
|
Following orders |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Foot worship |
No |
1 |
|
|
Forced bedwetting |
No |
No |
|
|
Forced dressing |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Forced eating |
No |
No |
|
|
Forced heterosexuality |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Forced homosexuality |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Forced masturbation |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Forced nudity (around others) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Forced nudity (private) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Forced servitude |
No |
4 |
|
|
Forced smoking |
No |
No |
|
|
Foreign objects |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Full head hoods |
No |
2 |
|
|
Gags (cloth) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Gags (inflatible) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Gags (phallic) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Gags (rubber) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Gags (tape) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Gas masks |
No |
No |
|
|
Gender change |
No |
No |
|
|
Genital sex |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Genital torture |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Given away to another Dom (perm) |
No |
No |
|
|
Given away to another Dom (temp) |
No |
No |
|
|
Golden showers |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Gun play |
No |
No |
|
|
Hair pulling |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Hairbrush spankings |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Hand jobs (giving) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Hand jobs (receiving) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Harems (serving with other subs) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Harnessing (leather) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Harnessing (rope) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Having clothing chosen for you |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Having food chosen for you |
No |
1 |
|
|
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Head (receive fellatio/cunnilingus) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
High heel wearing |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
High heel worship |
No |
1 |
|
|
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Hoods |
No |
2 |
|
|
Hot oils (on genitals) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Hot waxing |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Housework (doing) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Human puppy dog |
No |
2 |
|
|
Humiliation (private) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Humiliation (public) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Hypnotism |
No |
No |
|
|
Ice cubes |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Immobilization |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Including others |
Yes |
5 |
Other fems only |
|
Infantilism |
No |
3 |
|
|
Initiation rites |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Injections |
No |
No |
|
|
Interrogations |
No |
3 |
|
|
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage |
No |
4 |
If I knew how! *grin* |
|
Kidnapping |
No |
3 |
|
|
Kneeling |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Knife play |
No |
No |
|
|
Leather clothing |
No |
2 |
|
|
Leather restraints |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Lectures for misbehavior |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Licking (non-sexual) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Lingerie (wearing) |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Manacles & Irons |
No |
2 |
|
|
Manicures (giving) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Massage (giving) |
Yes |
1 |
|
|
Massage (receiving) |
Yes |
1 |
|
|
Medical scenes |
No |
2 |
|
|
Modeling for erotic photos |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Mouth bits |
No |
3 |
|
|
Mummification |
No |
2 |
|
|
Name change (for scene) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Name change (legal, permanant) |
No |
0 |
|
|
Nipple clamps |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Nipple play/torture |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Nipple rings (piercings) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Nipple weights |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Oral/anal play (rimming) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Orgasm control |
No |
1 |
|
|
Orgasm denial |
No |
No |
|
|
Outdoor scenes |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Outdoor sex |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Over-the-knee spanking |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Pain (mild) |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Pain (severe) |
No |
No |
|
|
Persona training (in scene) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Personality modification (RL) |
No |
No |
|
|
Phone sex (commercial provider) |
No |
No |
|
|
Phone sex (serving Dom) |
No |
4 |
While I listen |
|
Phone sex (serving friends of Dom) |
No |
4 |
While I listen |
|
Piercing (permanent) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Plastic surgery |
No |
No |
|
|
Pony slave |
No |
4 |
|
|
Prison scenes |
No |
4 |
|
|
Prostitution (actual) |
No |
No |
|
|
Prostitution (public pretense) |
No |
3 |
|
|
Public exposure |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Punishment Scene |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Pussy worship |
Yes |
5 |
for sub (although I do, too) |
|
Pussy/Cock whipping |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Religious scenes |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Restrictive rules on behavior |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Riding crops |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Riding the horse (crotch torture) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Rituals |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Rope body harness |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Rubber/latex clothing |
No |
3 |
|
|
Saran wrapping |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Scarification |
No |
No |
|
|
Scratching – getting |
No |
No |
|
|
Scratching – giving |
No |
No |
|
|
Sensory deprivation |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Serving |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Serving as a maid |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Serving as art |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Serving as ashtray |
No |
No |
|
|
Serving as furniture |
No |
No |
|
|
Serving as toilet (feces) |
No |
No |
|
|
Serving as toilet (urine) |
No |
No |
|
|
Serving as waitress/waiter |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Serving orally (sexual) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Serving other Doms (supervised) |
No |
No |
|
|
Serving other Doms (unsupervised) |
No |
No |
|
|
Sexual deprivation (long term) |
No |
No |
|
|
Sexual deprivation (short term) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Shaving (body hair) |
Yes |
1 |
|
|
Shaving (genital hair) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Shaving (head hair) |
No |
No |
|
|
Skinny-dipping |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Sleep deprivation |
No |
No |
|
|
Sleepsacks |
No |
3 |
|
|
Slutty clothing (private) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Slutty clothing (public) |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Spandex clothing |
No |
3 |
|
|
Spanking |
Yes |
5 |
for sub |
|
Speculums (anal) |
No |
No |
|
|
Speculums (vaginal) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Speech restrictions (when, what) |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Spitting |
No |
No |
|
|
Spreader bars |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Standing in corner |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Stocks |
No |
4 |
|
|
Straight jackets |
No |
2 |
|
|
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) |
No |
4 |
|
|
Strapping (full body beating) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Supplying new partners for Dom |
No |
1 |
|
|
Suspension (horizontal) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Suspension (inverted) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Suspension (upright) |
No |
2 |
|
|
Swallowing feces |
No |
No |
|
|
Swallowing semen |
Yes |
5 |
for sub |
|
Swallowing urine |
No |
0 |
|
|
Swapping (with one other couple) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Swinging (multiple couples) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Tampon training (in ass) |
No |
No |
|
|
Tasting yourself |
Yes |
5 |
for sub |
|
Tattooing |
No |
1 |
|
|
Tears |
No |
No |
|
|
Teasing |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
TENS Unit (electrical toy) |
No |
No |
|
|
Thumbcuffs (metal) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Tickling |
Yes |
2 |
|
|
Tit fucking |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Tit torture |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Triple penetration |
Yes |
5 |
for sub |
|
Uniforms |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Urethral sounds (metal rods) |
No |
? |
Don't know |
|
Vaginal dildo |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Vaginal/Anal balls, eggs, beads |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Verbal humiliation |
Yes |
3 |
|
|
Vibrator on genitals |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Video (recordings of you) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Video (watching others) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Violet Wand (electrical toy) |
No |
No |
|
|
Voyeurism (watching others) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Voyeurism (your Dom with others) |
Yes |
5 |
|
|
Water torture |
No |
1 |
|
|
Waxing (hair removal) |
No |
1 |
|
|
Wearing fluids |
No |
1 |
|
|
Wearing symbolic jewelery |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Weight gain (forced) |
No |
No |
|
|
Weight loss (forced) |
No |
No |
|
|
Whipping |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Wooden paddles |
Yes |
4 |
|
|
Wrestling |
No |
No |
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